Thursday, November 27, 2008

week 7 - the last week of short semester

hmm... week 7...
last week for short semester dy...
so fast...

i was wondering thinking just now that i wanted to blog something...
however, by the time i log into my blog, my mind is blank...totally blank...
so, instead of having a topic, i change it to separate random thoughts...

xxxxx

Was struggling for the school anthem competition...
I agreed and promised to submit at least 2 songs...
however, stuck at this point...
never mind, i shall complete it tomorrow with weiyang, i think so...
school anthem really hard to write...

xxxxx

i have to admit somehow i am a very lazy student...
you know what, i believe a lot of lecturers and tutors did put hope on me and thinks that i am able to deliver some good results...
however, sad to say, i disappointed them...
i need to apologize to dr.selva, ms manickam and also miss alagu...
however the encouraging words did helped me a lot...
in the sense of it helps me to get away from the words of those "who loves me so much"...

oh ya, i need to say something here...
first and foremost, whether you are a real or fake person, do not think that your lecturer won't know... you know what? in mandarin there's a saying goes like this, "the salt they eat is much more than the rice you eat"... i believe that whether you are sincer or not, the lecturer will know! If you need to buy them with nescafe, biscuit or kuih... i think you really underestimated them...

secondly, whether your thoughts are mature or not, people will know, if their thoughts are mature as well... please la, don't beat around the bush la... if you can answer then answer, if you cannot answer, just say i don't know la! Mr. Johnny Kong says, "know means know, don't know means don't know, this kind of person is the one who really knows!" haha! i was wondering anybody would understand my english... haha... anyway, do not act clever or act knowledgeable... frankly speaking, it is really funny...

anyway, i do not despise anyone, as long as you don't despise yourself... I am nobody to despise anybody... ^^

xxxxx

"wah, this kind of people I won't same group with him anymore!"
"he really make himself disgrace!"
"he is like this de ah?"
"yafu, go tell him cannot like this one!"
"he really too over... this is his real face..."

the time i listen to these phrases, the thing that came across my mind is "cheh, since year 1 already know la! now only realize meh?"
haha... i really thought these are some really funny statements...

i suppose i am the "baddest" guy who likes to be political, who don't want to do work, who act clever, who is stupid, who is rude, who is wicked...
funny... human beings are funny...
I won't blame anyone because i admit i also didn't communicate well with everyone... Not that I am not friendly or I am self-centered or ego... it's just that sometimes I am really lazy to talk... but when you talk to me, you will know how much i can talk(perhaps that's why usually i don't talk)...
i am not like what you think... i am somewhat complicated species lah... it's hard to see people of combination of singing + performance + sports + scientific + debate + can study + fat + looks nerd + looks angry when serious + can be funny at times + ponteng yet can pass all exams + etc... because it's a mixture of a lot of field... and people will have first impression that those who sings and performs are those whose cannot study; those who can score are those who can study only and they are nerd and not creative; those who can speak are those who are lanci and always like to talk cock/empty vessels; those who are fat dislikes sports; those who ponteng are those who don't like to study/read books; a face like mine can sing?; etc lah... The world is so big lah... Open your eyes to see!

Sometimes I really think that keeping quiet is good in the sense of you can actually see a lot of things... I really thanked GOD for giving me good observation and some thing i call "X-factor"/sixth sense...
Somehow I feel pity to those who found out the "reality" and realizes at the end of thier studies in degree programmes...

My 4.0 top student classmate/ex-groupmate, Mary, once told me before, "I do judge a book by its cover..." (if not mistaken)... i can agree some part of this phrase as i believe in one thing that is "xiang you xin sheng", which means your face represents your heart... This society, a lot of people likes to act like another person that he/she wanted to become which in reality he/she does not belongs to... I felt that this is one of the most contradicting idea and behavior human being likes to do... haha...

aiya, don't care la... now only realize is better than you never realize and don't want to face reality! face the mistakes and wrong judgment you have done... no one will blame you... at least i won't lah... to err is human, to forgive is divine!! ^^

xxxxx

I seldom blog in english... perhaps that's why my english cannot improve...
haha... my english level stays at secondary level...
this is a bad news for myself and i do think that i need to improve my broken english...

However, i believe that sometimes i need to blog in english...
why? joyce says before, "yafu, you don't write in mandarin..."
since i always go to her blog and some other english blogger's blog, i think i need to write some in english lah... haha... i hope that you can enjoy my english post lah!

4.06am...
need to do something else...
goodnight...
^^

Sunday, November 23, 2008

from ah cheng's blog

我有一个专署个人的诗人/写词的人~
我曾经在部落格里面介绍过他。。。
从他的部落格转载了这篇很不错的东西。。。



原來每個人都承受不起改變

退休很久的德士司機又回來工作了

不過這次他認不得路
駕車變得很不順利

清道夫回來學校掃地了
不過這次走掉了很多熟人
園內在打掃時吹來的風
也經歷了冬天
暖不回來了

婆婆回去家鄉
因為比較喜歡風扇
公雞啼叫的聲音總比“黃金年華”唱得好聽
回去家鄉
因為在爺爺留下來的家
才能把思念 燒給他

曾經我們陸續把牽著的手放開
前後各自盛著傷口走下臺來
慢慢地變成比做敵人更傷的愛人

火苗苛責著燭淚窩囊地掉下來了
燭淚點頭的說
“是你燒我的”

奔離了原始的彼此
我們都無法好好地回歸簡單

此時
我們也為彼此的改變
而飆淚


http://xch3ng.blog.friendster.com/

星期天

今天我觉得有点烦。。。
睡觉总是睡不好。。。
那个神经手机又不懂发生什么事情跟我发脾气。。。
唉~~~~~~~~~ 烦啊~

xxxxx

我现在在听着一首歌曲。。。
觉得还不错的。。。
我也不懂这个歌手是谁啦。。。
刘晏维 - 亲爱的,我们回不去了吗?
一位中国女歌手。。。
http://www.haoting.com/musiclist/ht_5e08eb1965558a8e.htm
蓝蓝的一首歌曲。。。
哈哈~

xxxxx

前两天我收到电话。。。
就叫我这个星期去参加一场辩论表演赛。。。
就跟一些我不认识,但是都是些有名气的辩论员一起来一场表演比赛。。。
印象中听到有梁文迪(常听爱死妹妹他们提起的名字)是我的同队队友。。。
我当然很高兴也很愿意啦~

但是,后来又想了想。。。
以我现在的水准,搞不好会表现的很差。。。
哈哈~毕竟我已经太久没有辩论了。。。
打算去拒绝的,但是手机好坏不坏,这个时候坏!真的是!@#$%^&*()

xxxxx

再过一两个星期,我就要考试了。。。
当然也是结束了我在拉曼的最后第二个学期。。。
天啊。。。
不懂是不是这样所以心情乱七八糟?
随便啦。。。
总之我就是很烦就对了。。。
哈哈~

Saturday, November 22, 2008

星光4

我经常会上网看星光大道和超级偶像。。。
都是想听别人唱歌,然后听讲评研究研究。。。
我觉得也算是一种伟扬说的“偷师”吧!哈哈。。。
是种学习啦。。。
而且这些节目都能够让我听到很多以前的歌曲或者一些我不懂的歌曲。。。
突然听到孙碧娜唱许茹芸的《祝福了》,我想到一样东西。。。
孙碧娜在处理这首歌曲是普通啦。。。
不过重点是,我决定要叫那个siali去学这首歌曲。。。
看看这样的曲风和唱腔他能不能尝试出我要的feel。。。
如果你们谁看到这篇又看到他online,记得告诉她。。。
谢谢。。。
我很健忘的。。。

Thursday, November 20, 2008

意义

教一个人读书,跟教一群人读书,有不一样的感觉;
教一个人辩论,跟教一群人辩论,有不一样的领悟;
教一个人唱歌,跟教一群人唱歌,又有不一样的发现。。。

从前所学习的,有新的了解;
从前不明白的,也终于有所领悟了。。。

基础打得好,什么也都变得容易了。。。
我很感谢这些年来帮助我很多的人。。。
特别是佳静和庆良。。。
如果没有他们,可能我不会那么多你们现在看到的东西。。。

昨天一位学生就说到。。。
“I wish one day I can like yafu, can teach people how to sing...”
哈哈。。。我心里当然很开心。。。
但是想一想过后,这难道不是我当年所想的吗?
我一直都想像佳静这样去做一场音乐剧,只是都没有机会。。。
我一直都想像庆良这样唱什么歌都很写意容易,但是我却总是达不到。。。

我经常都说,“只要我能够办到,你一定能够办到!”
在我的世界里,22年一来我做过两样最笨的事情。。。
应该不是说笨,而且我在做一些不属于我而应该只能归类为“兴趣”的事情。。。
就是我很用心去练辩论与唱歌。。。
始终不相信自己没有什么天分,却死死都要去做。。。
或许就是这股决心与毅力,才会有永不言弃的勇气。。。
当我越来越深入了解,我就明白,我真的没有天分。。。
哈哈!真的很多人比我太有天分了。。。
不过,我很开心我能通过唱歌与辩论学习到很多东西。。。

xxxxx

你不懂,不代表不存在;就算你懂,也不代表你懂的就是全部!
有些时候,是应该多了解的。。。
了解不是八卦与干涉,否则PR就是一个最八卦最干涉的科系。。。

为了拒绝而去拒绝的人,是懦弱逃避的人;
为了更好而去拒绝的人,是勇于面对的人!
拒绝不代表你有立场,也不代表你有主见,更不代表你很厉害!
当你的拒绝没意义的时候,当结局不是你要的时候,
你就明白当初你的拒绝是有多么愚昧!

为了权力而要权力的人,是心里不平衡的人;
为了改变而要权力的人,是有担当责任的人!
得到权力不代表你可以为所欲为,也不代表你是什么人,更不代表唯你独尊!
当你没办法驾驭权力,当你为权力而丧失了理智,
你会了解权力是多么沉重的沉重!

这就是我对这个Assignment最想讲的话。。。
谢谢。。。

Monday, November 17, 2008

回忆

那天晚上。。。
回忆、往事都做了一个大复习。。。
为我复习的,是一位朋友,一个信箱。。。

xxxxx
两天前的现在。。。
发现了尘封已久的信件。。。

2006年4月15号。。。

“yer, you dont geli~ the one you miss is her!!! not me!!!”

这一天,我在哪里?我说了什么?通通都写在e-mail里面。。。
是谁曾经那样的进入我生命。。。
是什么让我辗转难眠。。。
又是因为什么而让我说了那么多残忍的话。。。
我是在说对自己忠心的话吗?
还是那些都是气话?
一切都已经不复存在。。。

xxxxx

“我记得你很幽默的。。。”
“是啊。。。两个星期啊~说不停。。。”
“是咯。。。很好笑的你。。。香蕉舞。。。”
“哎呀!别提了。。。哈哈~”

那一年的记忆还剩下多少?
我反复问了自己。。。
搜寻了许久。。。
迟迟想不起发生了什么事情,说过什么话。。。

“啊?我真的说过这样的话?做过这样的事情?”
“是啊!这是我对你印象最深刻的地方。。。”

原来。。。我还有这么一段被遗忘的故事。。。

xxxxx

两天后的后来。。。
我发现。。。
我没有遗忘这些零碎片段。。。
因为。。。信箱已经告诉了我。。。
掩盖这一些故事的原因。。。
或许。。。
那两年,只有你的回忆残留在我脑海吧。。。

淹没了我。。。
我淹没了。。。
在这回忆的海洋。。。

xxxxx

又过了两年。。。
平淡。。。安静。。。
没有了从前的风。。。
却下着一样的雨。。。

“i never knew you can do all these...”
“haha...”
“why don't you show it or tell us?”
“nothing de la...”

从前的我,应该没有想过会有人这样问吧。。。
两年就这样过了。。。
你也没想再过我会是怎样的吧。。。?

安静。。。
因为我只想仔细听清楚你所说的一言一语。。。
也许这就是我最好的解释。。。

一切已经随风而逝。。。
我也已经不药而愈。。。

谢谢你,是你教会我,世界上没有永远。。。( han, 2008 )

xxxxx

Sunday, November 16, 2008

what happened these few days

haha...
i am very very busy these few days...
campaign lo... what else?
this campaign is something really very funny...
haha! juz now i juz know some things... really damn funny...
有些时候呢,有些事情,是“自己拿来衰”的!自作孽,不可活。。。
真金是不怕红炉火的啦。。。
人类真是愚昧。。。
this campaign really let me "learn" a lot of things!
i think we can shoot a series of "supernatural" or "ghost buster" movies just based on this campaign... haha...

now only i know why GOD is so sad of human beings...

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went to catholic high today again...
become judge lo...
not bad la...
just that i suddenly feel that i need to improve a bit le...
since i started to teach vocal singing and also becoming the judge of debate competition...
i felt that i actually need to improve myself in order to go further...
and i have that kind of stress that i should improve myself in order to show a better example to them all...
hmm... dunno la...
very tiring work but i enjoy a lot...

==================================

spoken with my junior last night...
hmm... i remember who is she le...
she really reminds me all those good old days!
i miss those days...
and she has given me very encouraging words...
perhaps those words makes me remember of something...
其实他还记得我说过的话,做过的事情。。。真的很不错。。。
哈哈。。。我很开心。。。虽然我真的不记得很多东西。。。
谢谢你,慧芬。。。

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Sunday, November 9, 2008

Birthday Celebration

^^

why so serious?

=.='''

@.@

The picture tells you the stories...
p/s: more to come~ i have to go to collect la~ this one all grab from orange's blog!

Thursday, November 6, 2008

Thank You List

Thank You List

Friendster
1.shinyo
2.xiuling
3.jacelyn
4.yawboon
5.chenchen
6.guatsiew
7.elin
8.vvn
9.hueyfang
10.eMay
11.sookkit
12.lili
13.wendy
14.言俞
15. anchor
16.xiaoting
17.slyn
18.kersoon
19.vivian
20.charlie
21.amy wen min
22.siew hui
23.irene
24.chloe
25.zi yang
26.♥单身の王子♥
27.dwen
28.elva
29.mingwei
30.aigene
31.peiying
32.orange
33.huiteng
34.ah fen
35.june
36.georgez
37.khoon lock
38.lucky hong

信息/sms
1。佳明
2。阿卿
3。义瑞
4。伊莉
5。晓烨
6。秀云
7。伟强
8。国祖
9。阿汉
10。爱玲
11。伟杰
12。希豪
13。伟文
14。美恩
15。家慧
16。kuan yew
17。jophennie
18。siew wan's mum
19。阿汉的妈妈
20. 万成
21. 瑞文
22. 宗豪
23. yoke fong
24. yling
25. kai ern
26. sueleng
27. ah toh
28. wei yen
29. 仪晶
30.hui hsing


Msn
1. amanda
2. chengcheng
3. yinyee
4. peach
5. jookim
6. wanyi
7. jonathan

Facebook
1. chin gan
2. sherreen
3. wynne koh
4. zheng jie
5. yi chin
6. joshua

face to face
1. ee lin
2. jui keat
3. chen fui
4. ah lian

Special thanks to:-
1. Guan Han
2. Kevin
3. Kok Joo
4. Orange
5. Kok Kin
6. Siew Wan

Thanks for celebrating my birthday with me! I am so touched... ^^ i enjoy it a lot and i love the present you all gave me!!! thank you~ Muacks~

Thank you all for the birthday wishes!!!

THANKS~! I REALLY APPRECIATE IT~

p/s: if I left out any name plz tell me ya~ hopefully i did not left out any names~ ^^

Sunday, November 2, 2008

学弟学妹

刚刚我收到comment in friendster。。。
他说是我以前的学妹,然后还在utar看到我很多次。。。
只是没有叫我。。。

我看了他的profile n次。。。
我还是记不起来。。。

我几时有这么可爱的学妹?
这是去他的friendster偷回来的。。。
原本还想假假记得然后尝试想一想我记不记得的。。。
不过,我反复看了照片,怎么我会忘记这么一个大美女呢?
哎~
我想了n遍。。。
下定决心,下次一定要在拉曼认出来。。。
如果你们有谁记得/知道他的名字,要告诉我~真的很不好意思。。。

歹势呢!

在这里也要跟各位有sms我的还是还记得我的朋友/学弟学妹道歉~
如果我认不出你,或者问你who are you?请不要生气。。。
没记好是我的错。。。我还是很珍惜我们之间的友谊的。。。
我答应你们以后我一定会记住你们的,记清清楚楚~
^^

Saturday, November 1, 2008

辩论会。。。不会?

啊啊啊啊啊啊啊啊啊~

刚刚从公教中学回来。。。

原本想留下来听“传说中的马大辩神”的评论的。。。
但是。。。
太累了。。。而且还有appointment。。。
嗯~

辩论会总是好玩的。。。
虽然这次是初中组的。。。赛况比较不怎么激烈。。。
但是还是让我觉得很开心。。。
我个人比较喜欢循人中学的这队辩手。。。觉得他们潜力无限。。。
大概是因为我以前教过的也是全女队吧。。。总会不自禁的想起这些人。。。
哈哈~
问了洁莹学姐,不是他们推荐我来当评判的。。。
原来。。。果然这是不可能的。。。
他们又介绍我是拉曼辩论员。。。真的不懂要怎么表情来表达。。。
算了,就当作我真的是吧。。。
我倒是怕他们那些真正的拉曼辩论员在意。。。哈哈~

哇~~~~~~~婉仪很出名啊~
学弟妹都认识你。。。
厉害厉害~

辩论辩论。。。
其实到最后,大家都还是输在基本功。。。
基础真的很重要。。。
或许大学辩论真的和中学辩论有很多不同。。。
但是,无论如何,基本的辩论就是基本的辩论。。。
basic is basic。。。
还不会走,怎么学飞呢?
基本的都不齐全,还何许谈那么多有的没的呢?
这是我的想法。。。
纯属个人意见。。。
但愿下个星期还能去看他们辩论。。。

宣泄的一晚

今天见了a和b。。。
他们找我做生意。。。
其实真的很开心。。。虽然我觉得我说了很多没有礼貌的话。。。
不过我想,我真的宣泄了很多。。。



可能太久累积了太多压力与情绪。。。
真觉得我越说越想哭。。。
哎。。。

昨晚我还发送信息给朋友说我心情超级不好,烦恼特别多。。。
哈哈。。。今天真的放松了很多。。。

说了很多感慨的话。。。
真心话。。。
不懂为什么。。。
可能真的压力太大。。。不然就是神经病。。。

说完话道别了我第一件要做的事情就是来blog一下。。。
今年是一个很不开心的一年。。。
是吗?应该是吧。。。
大概也可能因为快要毕业了吧。。。(患了毕业神经症候群。。。哈哈~自己发明的。。。)

"I'm going to graduate soon..."
"ya lo, so sad..."
"i thought you are going to say you are very happy?"
"no la... next time can't see you in utar campus anymore..."
"really? if that's the reason then really touching la..."

谢谢你啦。。。我就知道你是好朋友。。。
哈哈。。。可能我也没有那么好,或许让你失望少少。。。
但是我真心认为有你这个朋友真好!你是我今年认识的第一个我很喜欢的朋友!
我想我们会如你说的keep in touch吧~

老了老了。。。
今年不懂会是怎样呢?
大概也是安静一个人渡过吧。。。
或许这也是我最好的庆祝方式~

振作一点。。。
不要为了这些挫折而放弃。。。

加油,好吗?
哈哈。。。

好啦~我要睡了。。。
明天早上要去找婉渝啦~